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% _' O0 ^1 k4 a$ M( |/ F: Y什么是Networking?; I4 W  h5 B1 H  ?; t& z+ M; m% L8 |  ~

. j# K8 c3 R/ W0 v$ e. Y# F  qNetworking不仅仅是交换信息那么简单。Networking是与你谋面过的人建立一种长期互惠互利的关系。
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为什么要Networking?8 e9 d2 i9 M8 e! X  W: X

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根据LinkedIn最近一年有关networking的调查结果显示, 85%的美国人都是通过不同场合的networking和内推找到心仪的工作。
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找谁Networking?% n* a, Z8 y$ ?" R5 C; _0 Q0 U
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    大学/研究生同学
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9 z5 S  N! o$ p/ f- z8 \9 g交流是networking的核心。掌握networking基本技巧可以迅速提高斩获offer的概率!接下来小编替你总结了几个不同场景可以用的小tips,拿走不谢!/ o% n/ h/ p6 H7 _

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在社交活动时最重要的是如何介绍自己,给别人留下好的第一印象。每次参加business event之前请一定要准备好自己30秒的Elevator Pitch。) [1 L# q, o7 L7 E

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最常见的问题
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"what do you do for a living?”/ Q* L$ d, {( f/ w. N6 J, \! ~) i9 S

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My name is [英文名]. It’s so nice to meet you! I’m a student from “xxx” college with a degree in [专业]. I hope to become a [职业] when I graduate. I’ve had a couple of internships where I worked on [实习过的几个项目]. I enjoy what I did before, and I’m constantly looking for a job that will apply my skills as a [职业] to work. So how about you?”0 Z& U( m: g/ x

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; a1 `7 ?+ |$ ?4 n0 z+ k9 G就像搭讪一样,一旦和TA有了眼神交流就一定要主动先打招呼! “Hi! How are you? My Name is xxx.”
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握手一定要真诚地有力度。如果紧张手心出汗,就放张面巾纸在口袋里,时不时擦一下。四目相对时面带微笑,千万不要眼神飘忽不定。/ K" `# l: M! e8 b; ?1 Q% u- O$ y

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不要踩点进入event,最好提前15分钟入场给自己留够观察房间内形势的时间。 目光锁定还没有交谈对象的小哥哥小姐姐。  @) m" F6 V: W+ Q
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如果感觉尴尬没人交谈时,可以站在取食物或取水的区域先拿杯水喝。当有人靠近时可以主动帮TA 拿杯子, 然后紧接着一句“Hi! My name is xxx.” 或是站在入口附近,一旦有长相友好的帅哥美女出现, 凑上去先打招呼, “So crowded, isn’t it?” 然后向TA伸出你的爪。
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% }8 O; r) R0 w: j各位小伙伴一定要记住,有一些美国友人在不确定你是否会流利地用英语交谈时,是不会主动打招呼的。(除非TA真的想搭讪)所以我们要甩开紧张的情绪,主动 say hi...
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. g% W9 }* c, T活动结束后不要忘记向对方询问联系方式, 要TA的business card, 或者加LinkedIn, Facebook。第二天一定要再发一封follow up email, 提醒 TA 你们在昨天的活动中交谈的很欢乐。  I2 U5 X0 d0 m, I8 w, @5 t) N
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约 TA 单独出来喝咖啡,聊聊天,熟络一下。之后在网上对TA所在的公司背景进行research,去官网上找一些你感兴趣的招聘职位,下一次约谈时请对方给自己一些career advice 和 referral。
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$ B3 m+ O- V! [% AFollow Up Email 模板,请笑纳~
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5 t+ t) J8 n- YThis is xxx. It was really nice meeting you at the [活动名称] event on [见面日期]. In particular, I was impressed with your knowledge of [交谈内容], and the working experiences as [TA的职业] that you shared during the talk were really helpful for my future career decision!6 H. @- @, P0 ~5 U
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I am wondering if you have time in the coming weeks, could I buy you coffee and learn more about [交谈内容]/ share some career advice to me?
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参照别人事业发展的道路再结合自己情况制定出一套可行的方案,这样就会事半功倍!那在交谈中我们需要问哪些问题来获取有用的信息呢?
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    0 z6 p7 D( M0 U- F4 m: h" U( D( q9 D; ~How did you enter this field?
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    What has your career path been like?
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    On a typical day (or week) in this position, what do you do?
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Networking是一项日常任务,数据显示即使是美国人,85%的工作offer也要靠朋友,导师,同事得到。所以各位小哥哥小姐姐们不要害羞怕麻烦,多加练习networking技巧,保证你offer拿到手软!
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